I know what it’s like to feel stuck—
but you don’t have to stay there.
Feeling aimless, beaten down and in a mental rut? Feel like you’ve done so much to achieve success but you’ve never felt farther away from it? Want to stand tall but can’t help feeling self-doubt? Don’t worry – I’ve been there too.
My story.
My name is Roxanna. For much of my life, I was always encouraged to become well acquainted with the person I was at every age. I maintained a practice of self-introspection and self-development and rarely felt like things weren’t in alignment with who I was.
However, things quickly changed during my early career as a lawyer where I faced challenges with toxic workplace culture, misguided management and poor treatment. These challenges affected my confidence in a way that I had never experienced. Subsequently the quality of my life and the quality of my mindset severely dwindled. As a young woman, I started to feel disempowered, de-motivated and the ability to nurture myself as I always had done quickly waned.
In 2020, life felt as if it was crumbling. Though my life was crumbling before my eyes and I found myself in a downward spiral of questioning everything: the decisions I had made up until that point, my purpose in life and even my own character and desires. Doubt crept into every aspect of my life and for the first time, I felt like there was no semblance of control, stability or self-confidence.
Various questions repeatedly played on my mind:
- Why do things feel completely hopeless?
- Do I still want all of the things I have worked so tirelessly for over the past decade?
- Am I living my truth?
- Who am I?
- Can I even do this?
- Where is my life headed?
The point of change.
By 2022, life felt stagnant. Years of feeling internally lost and being unable to bounce back had taken their toll. My enthusiasm for life and for myself had disappeared and with it, so did my momentum to move forward and achieve. It all felt very strange to someone who was constantly working towards the next thing. However, it was that lack of momentum that forced me to search for the solution to the hole of a problem I found myself in. Because let’s be honest, no one can create the life you want or be the person you want other than you. After some honest conversations with myself, I realised that I needed a complete mindset shift in order to manifest clarity, confidence and connection. It was no longer just about achieving on the outside, but also on the inside. That turning point began a long journey of self-mastery, anchored in the unlearning of outdated and limiting thought processes and the learning new perspectives and practices. I have taken those learnings to create my signature method, which has helped people finally meet themselves where they are, embrace their internal power and harness it to live truly meaningful, impactful and authentic lives.
